Sunday, January 17, 2016

A Hunting We Will Go!

House hunting, I always thought it would be super fun but in reality it is exhausting.  The Sheriff and I have been on the hunt for the last four or five weeks, mainly checking realtor.com like it is our job and mapping out and going to open houses on the weekends.  So far we have been to close to around twenty-five houses and have found three that we really like.  

The first one we fell in love with (maybe just me on the love part, the Sheriff liked it) was this four bedroom fixer upper, it was a hoarder house that had all of the trash removed, but it needed a lot of work.  The Sheriff and I were up for the challenge and we had roped Super Dad into thinking it was a great idea to want to help us, but in the end the listing agent who was part owner of the house was not willing to negotiate and we were not going to pay full price for the house.  Part of me is very sad that we did not put an offer in but the rational part of me knew there would be no more $$$ for repairs, so in the end it was not meant to be.  



The second house was the most perfect house, it was beautiful inside, had a good size lot, was in a good location and only needed a little bit of touch up paint.  We spent a lot of time looking at it, weighing pros and cons (no downstairs bedroom or three car garage), but in the end I was in love and I wanted it.  If you ever watch "Say Yes to the Dress" they say when you cry over the dress than you have found "the one", well I wanted to cry when I thought "this is the house", I was ready to put in an offer and make it ours only to find out that the house was already in escrow with another buyer and the listing agent had not changed the status of the house.  I really wanted to cry at that point!


The third house we randomly stumbled upon while we were out cruising open houses yesterday.  This house is way overpriced in my opinion, every room needs to be updated and it has a few layout quirks to it, but it has a pool and a ton of potential and we can definitely see us living there.


And these are a few that I want to go see in the near future, some are above our price range, some are below and some are just right.  But for now I think we will just hang tight and see how the Sheriff's house does and when we have a solid offer we will drag our agent back out our way to go and see them.

This house has been on the market for awhile now, perhaps it is the horrible decor inside that is deterring people from it, I on the other hand like a good project.

Who would not want this backyard?  This house will probably go quick, quicker than we will be ready for it, but I still want to see it.

This house has good bones but a ugly backyard, thankfully we have a landscape designer in the family!

And for kicks, I have started taking pictures of ugly light fixtures that could be ours if the price is right, lol!


Please note, the flower wallpaper that would most definitely need to go!


Thursday, January 7, 2016

Favorite Things as of Late!

Just a few of my favorite things lately….



I was in desperate need of some lounge wear, it is cold and rainy out and I didn't necessarily want to come home and put my pj's on but I definitely want to change out of my work clothes, so I found these "simple" pants on gap.com and bought two pairs, they are absolutely amazing and they were 40% off.

I also bought this wrap from Barefoot Dreams, my boss at work introduced all of us to this amazingly soft wrap that goes perfect with my simple pants and it was on sale as well!


El Nino has hit So. Cal and I need to be prepared, so I bought myself fun rain boots from lillybee.com, they will go perfectly with my polka dot umbrella, ha!  Not on sale, oh well!


The Starbucks order app is they best!  Every morning as I am running out the door for work, I place my order on my phone, drive to Starbucks, run in to get my drink and I am on my way to work all in the matter of minutes.  What I am missing is my favorite baristas who would run my order out to my car early in the morning, that was awesome!



And Mrs. Meyer's Orange Clove candle!  I am not a scented candle fan, but there is something about these candles that I love!  They were on clearance at Target the other day for .39 each so I bought all 17 that they had left. 

And now I am broke!! :)








Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Dreaming!

We are about three weeks into the big “change your relationship move” and if you ask me things are going pretty well.  Living with two guys is interesting and when one of them is 11 years old it can be a tad bit frustrating, it is kind of like living with a mini tornado all of the time!  I am not proud to say I have lost my mind several times and almost cried about spilled milk juice three times in one week.  Seriously I do not understand the logic of placing a cup of juice on a coffee table at the dogs level TWICE and each time it getting knocked over and spilling ALL OVER our poor rug or taking a cup of juice to your room and spilling it on the wood floor and just letting the dog lick it up as your way of cleaning the mess and leaving a huge sticky spot on the floor.  I yelled the first time because “dude our rug” and “dude we need to keep the things we have nice cause we are moving and we cannot have a stained rug when showing the house”.  The first time I cleaned it up and the second and third times he cleaned it up because I am not cleaning up his spills anymore.  The dogs have made me a little crazy, they can be so needy sometimes, Ebo found his voice and the Sheriff encourages it to help build “his confidence” oh dear God, when I heard that I died a little inside, I don’t need a barking dog in my life and the next door neighbor and I had a little run in regarding all of his tree leaves and spiky balls that fall from his tree into our yard and me kindly returning them to him, he did not seem to appreciate the pile of them dumped into his yard via the bucket and over the fence method so I will be sure to bag them up and place them on his front porch the next time I do yardwork.  With all that said, things are really good, I was a little nervous leaving my quiet space and moving in and if someone knew I needed a little reassurance that I made the right decisions, I had this crazy dream the other night that I was on several different roller coasters.  In my dream I was sitting in the very front row, riding the tallest roller coasters known to man and I could feel/see the coaster climbing and climbing and climbing and then we would reach the top and go over the hump and drop just a little bit and go right back up again but not as high.  This would happen again and again, most of the time I was by myself in the front with people behind me and sometimes the Sheriff would be sitting next to me, it was crazy.  Another part of my dream I was on a straightaway and the roller coaster was spinning tightly around the track, it was intense but not out of control.  I remember a lot of my dreams but this one really stuck out in my mind and given all of the changes going on I did a little Google research to see if I could find any meaning in this dream.  I found several sites that talked about roller coaster dreams and what they mean.  Basically they are good dreams if you don’t feel the drop or have the long falling feeling which I really did not, most of the time I got to the top, went over the hump and it stopped there or it went down a short distance and right back up again.  But the best part was that I was riding up front and I found that it meant when you are sitting at the front of the roller coaster, then this is a sign of taking the challenges head on and being in the excitement and submerging yourself.

Here is a little bit more about what roller coaster dreams mean, I kindly borrowed this information from the internet…

The symbol of the roller coaster means that you will be challenged in life, as the bumpy ride is how you will feel about a situation. How did you feel about the rollercoaster? Was it big? Were you excited? Your feeling in the dream state will give you an idea of how to approach the problem. For instance, say you don't want to ride the rollercoaster because you are too frightened then this can show that you will encounter a scary situation that will worry you in real life. This is just a reflection of your feeling in the dream. To dream of enjoying the ride and having "fun" riding on the rollercoaster and having this excitement is also associated to how you will feel in life soon. When you dream about a roller coaster, often there is a lot going on and your life, you are experiencing a time of flux, erratic behaviors, or simply a lot of excitement. Dreams of roller coasters can be both positive and negative.

We all have moments in life when things seems overwhelming but it is a good kind of excitement such as a new job, getting married, having a baby, entering college, or taking on a new challenge in life. When you are sitting at the front of the roller coaster, then this is a sign of taking the challenges head on and being in the excitement and submerging yourself. If you linger in the back, are nervous or decide last minute that you are not going to ride, you want to consider how you can be more assertive in your own waking life and what you are avoiding.

Now I need to stop dreaming and go unpack my stuff that I keep saying I will unpack today, sadly the unpacking fairy has yet to show her face and help out! 


Until then Sweet Dreams! 

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Saturday, January 2, 2016

2015 in Review!

January - 

The Sheriff and I took the kids to Knott's Berry Farm for our annual trip and to take advantage of the Law Enforcement Appreciation Month and free tickets that come alone with it.  We are very thankful for the hard work the Sheriff puts in along with all of the other men and women who do the same protecting us.  


 February -

We celebrated the birth of Madeleine and Evelyn 5 weeks early, Caroline's 4th birthday and the babies heading home two short weeks after being born!







March - 

Life was pretty low key, nothing big happened, we were just busy living life, loving the babies and plugging along!  I continue to remind myself of this….
April - 

I created quite a stir on Facebook and the blog when I posted this, it was all in good fun but there were a few people who got their panties in a bunch over it.


I also made a huge decision to sell my condo!  


And we celebrated Cole's 10th birthday!




May - 

Gracie girl turned 7 years old, crazy to think I have survived 7 years of her!


June - 

The cousins finally got to meet, they are the cutest together but holy cow they are all so loud!





And we celebrated this guy…


July -

We celebrated the 4th of July at G&G's in the pool!



The Sheriff and I started house hunting a little bit, we were pretty set in buying in the new Rancho Mission Viejo neighborhood but later decided against it.  

I still want this house bad, but I will live without it!

The Sheriff and I went and say Kenny Chesney in concert!



We took Mr. Pie on an outdoor adventure, he learned how to shoot several types of guns along with a bow and arrow.


August - 








September - 


I look very weathered here!


Our good friends the Reed's came to town and we enjoyed a nice visit with them!



October - 

I shared some unseen moments from the Summer!





I had a mini "selling your house" meltdown!

We had to say goodbye to our sweet Milo!







November-

The Sheriff I celebrated threeeeeeeee years of dating!




December - 








I hope everyone had a happy 2015, here is to a very happy 2016!